Poor girl, she gets all excited about getting her new car, then being able to "mod" it (I use the term "mod" loosely), then joining a community in which she can share her excitement with other enthusiasts, but in the end, she gets shot down in flames (no pun intended).
People are gonna rag on you for flames, decals, vinyls and custom license plates, but you've done what you've wanted to do to your car. It's not their's, it's your's. You gotta take the good with the bad. Being ragged on should be expected... you own a Tiburon... Just don't let every Joe Blow and Jane Hancock tell you what's right and wrong. Consider it all to be... constructive criticism.
Be proud... your vehicle is a 2008, how many people can say that? and you got it in black!