is she cute? lol.
nah, 05-06 models look better, and they got rid of the first-year kinks (ie clutches) by 05-06. they also added some desperately needed color to the interiors for 05-06. besides a facelift, they really didn't do anything spectacular to the cars from a drivetrain standpoint, so an 05-06 car is fine. (they were largely carryover b/w 03-04 and 05-06)
try to get one with under 60K, or over 60K with proof that the timing belt was done.
also, test drive a 6sp and 5sp V6 model, and see which one u like best. the 6sp is kind of a pain at times due to its shorter ratios, and the torquey truck motor makes very little use of the tighter spread. (i know cuz i have one)
also, props to your daughter for being a female who drives stick.